Hello…
…and welcome to my little world. My husband and I live in a house that was
lovely maintained. Whenever a real
estate agent says “lovely maintained” it often refers to a long-time owner who
could be older. The home is neat and
clean, but is not updated. When I say
those words, I mean exactly the same thing.
Think about oak cabinets, flower wall paper, and florescent lights.
To make matters worse,
my husband resists change as if it was death, making it very difficult for us
to even plan a remodel. It seemed like
there was no hope for our situation, until recently when my work schedule
changed, causing me to have one entire day to spend at home while he is at
work. That is when I found out that even
though he cannot talk about changing things around the house, he actually likes
the results when I do it. Once a week, while
he gets ready for work, he asks what are my plans, I say that I don’t have any
plans while I try to sink my head even deeper into my pillow. But I know exactly what I am doing, and he
knows something will be different when he gets home from work.
This arrangement works perfectly for us, it saves us a lot
of time trying to agree on colors and shapes, it also saves him a lot of aggravation. He usually comes home a little earlier on my
days off, I chose to believe that he is excited to see my daily project, as
opposed to trying to get home before I make any more damage.
In this blog I will share my plans, my projects, my before and after pictures with you, just promise me that, if you know my husband you will not tell him about my plans.
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